What is the free consultation for?
Finding the right therapist really matters. Therapy involves building a relationship in which you feel comfortable, understood and able to trust someone with your thoughts and feelings. Without that connection, it can be difficult to open up and make progress. My complimentary 30-minute session gives you the opportunity to see whether we feel a good fit, without pressure or obligation.
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What I value about being a therapist
I find it rewarding to work alongside people as they develop a greater understanding of themselves, their experiences and relationships. I have a particular interest in how trauma, in childhood and adulthood, can shape our sense of self, identity and how we relate to others. I value enabling people make sense of these experiences, recognise patterns that may no longer serve them and discover new ways of relating to themselves and others.
Difference in counselling and psychotherapy
Counselling is usually more short term, addressing specific problems or life situations where as psychotherapy is typically a longer term process which focuses on deeper issues (past experiences) and patterns you may have experienced in your life.
βIt is worth noting, because of their training, a psychotherapist can provide counselling . A counsellor can not provide psychotherapy.
What is couples therapy
By talking through relationship difficulties from each person's perspective enables couples, through gathering information about their family of origin, make sense of how their upbringing has shaped their experience of the world and their relationship.β
Each person can then develop a greater understanding of themselves, how they behave and communicate with their partner, and how they are experienced by the other.
How long to stay in therapy
βThere is no set timeframe or right or wrong answer. One of the benefits of open-ended therapy is that the decision to finish is yours. Having an agreement about what you hope to achieve or explore provides direction. I strongly encourage discussing your decision with your therapist and allowing time to work towards an ending, rather than simply stopping abruptly. This can be a valuable part of the therapeutic process in its own right.